Someone said a bloggers “concept of [oneself] is derived from a perceived membership in a particular blog through the deeper connectivity of the dialog”. If that is the case then my concept of self has been fragmented as long as I can imagine. Over the years I have gone through the phases of identifying self/voice, keeping self under wraps and exposing to the few I trust, questioning that practice and finally giving up in my attempts to ‘define’ myself but yet keeping it true to me at this moment in time. Unlike in the postmodern worldview, transience, flux, and fragmentation describe the growing sense of how things really are. I do think there is me in the fragmented view of myself and therefore I am merging “all” of my various attempts into ‘one’ blog/space/expression.

I take this leap knowing that my attempts to resist/seek definition will be met with some definitions whether I like it or not.

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Anybody (anybody?) who has read my last few posts knows that I have been discussing the imagery of women in advertising and holding the executives in advertising responsible for perpetuating the stereotype. While watching super bowl this year I was struck by how America thinks about gender —or actually what the advertising executives think America is thinking about gender— in 2013.

So clearly girls love pink and there is no way that a dad can take her away from her pink room. However a bag of chips can totally make pink, dad and his friend’s new favorite color? I am still mulling over the undertones but here is the advertisement for you to take a look at:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NmIGTTy8pI0

Women in America are still expected to do the laundry but well they can use that as ‘advantage’ over their male partners to convey their own ‘game spirit’.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YoOfBVraMNw

There are quite some many of these but I stop here and think – this has semblances of my ‘real life ‘ but with completely distorted reflections I am being fed my own reality and I am buying it?

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